Carta de amor das estrelas?

Não vejo nenhuma incompatiblidade entre referências ao “universo” Star Wars e cartas de amor, tudo depende das “referências que são escolhidas” e de se poder avaliar se as cartas são mesmo “de amor”.

Logo para começar, se a destinatária da carta conhecer bem o http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Star_Wars_Episode_V:_The_Empire_Strikes_Back ela poderá querer “tomar em linha de conta” que o Luke Skywalker não tem nenhuma “relação” com o seu
tauntaun, pois apenas o esventra com um golpe do seu “Laser Sabre”, para depois rastejar para dentro do cadáver e assim se proteger do frio. (Luke and uses the warmth of his dead tauntaun mount to keep him alive while they wait to be rescued.)

Mesmo com uma “colossal” boa vontade, e com todo o “benefícío da dúvida” que se possa ter, a referência ao Tauntan, continua a levantar muitas questões sobre o tipo de relação desejado. Ver: http://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marsupiais

Após uma breve “Análise de conteúdo” http://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/An%C3%A1lise_de_conte%C3%BAdo muito rápida, penso que se trata de uma carta com uma eleveda percentagem de “chantagem emocional”, e não necessáriamente uma verdadeira carta de amor.

Há demasiada ambivalência. http://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ambival%C3%AAncia / http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ambivalence

Ver: http://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chantagem

Sugiro: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_blackmail

Recomendo o livro:

Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Blackmail-People-Obligation-Manipulate/dp/0060928972

“If you really loved me…”
“After all I’ve done for you…”
“How can you be so selfish…”

Do any of the above sound familiar? They’re all examples of emotional blackmail, a powerful form of manipulation in which people close to us threaten to punish us for not doing what they want.

Emotional blackmailers know how much we value our relationships with them. They know our vulnerabilities and our deepest secrets.

They are our mothers, our partners, our bosses and coworkers, our friends and our lovers.

And no matter how much they care about us, they use this intimate knowledge to give themselves the payoff they want: our compliance.

Susan Forward knows what pushes our hot buttons.

Just as John Gray illuminates the communications gap between the sexes in Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, and Harriet Lerner describes an intricate dynamic in The Dance of Anger, so Susan Forward presents the anatomy of a relationship damaged by manipulation, and gives readers an arsenal of tools to fight back.

In her clear, no-nonsense style, Forward provides powerful, practical strategies for blackmail targets, including checklists, practice scenarios and concrete communications techniques that will strengthen relationships and break the blackmail cycle for good.

She helps clarify the personal damage victims of control sustain.

I have become much more aware of people in my life that may be using unhealthy methods of control and have used the advice to stop, think and strategize to help me.

It even helped me become a little wiser to ploys of friends of my kids.

This book shows us how to resolve unhealthy control without necessarily having to end the relationship.

hehehe

Mas dependendo da garota, essa carta pode ser muito efetiva. :p

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